| Injured
Athlete
By
Tom Donnelly, Sales Manager, Seattle,
WA
You are going to your right plant
your foot to move to the left; your
right foot doesn't rotate with your
body and you hear the sickening pop,
feel the pain and know the knee is
gone before you hit the ground.
The first thoughts are, Oh God not
the knee, and will I be able to continue
to play.
It is totally irrational to think
of your athletic career at a time
like this but you have been involved
in sports at some level most of your
life and your sport fills a very important
part of your life; so, logic be damned
you don't want this part of your life
to end.
You may be a professional athlete
whose livelihood depends upon your
ability to perform well or you could
be a weekend warrior who really enjoys
the game and the camaraderie of the
sport.
For the professional athlete the
injury could mean the end of life
as you have known it and all the hard
work and sacrifice has gone by the
wayside and a new way of life has
to begin. Hopefully the doctors and
trainers can patch you together sufficiently
to play some more but the fear nags
that you will be a step slower and
someone will take your place. Mood
swings begin, relationships go to
hell, and your entire focus in life
is beating the injury and getting
back on the field.
What if you can't make it back or
this injury just will not let you?
What now?
For the weekend warrior or the dedicated
amateur the injury probably will not
get the same level of care the pro
will get and you are on your own for
the doctors visits and rehab. The
job and family each must sacrifice
for your recovery and your concentration
on both is diminished to an extent.
You may be able to make it back into
the game, but at what cost? Can you
afford to be injured again? Can your
family and job afford another round
of treatments and rehab?
If you have to hang it up what do
you do to replace the sport you love
and the friends built around it?
In either the professional or weekend
warrior's case the social life built
around the sport is going to be gone.
Yeah I know everyone says you will
still be part of the team and you
will hang around for a while. In the
beginning people are concerned but
tend to shy away because they don't
want to see their vulnerability in
you. Later you tend to drift away
because you are no longer part of
the action. A spectator can't share
discussions of great plays and funny
stories so you drift away.
Welcome to depression city!
You might not recognize it as depression
but think back. Your relationship
with your loved ones the same? Temper
getting a bit short? Become driven
about work or other things? Not sleeping
real well? Well those are some fairly
good signs of depression.
While the active athlete has the
support of their peers and access
to performance enhancing sports therapists,
the injured athlete is by themselves
and usually has to go through this
loss alone.
There is a growing recognition that
these injured athletes need to deal
with their loss of ability and support
group.
" The injured athlete must go
through a grief and loss process much
as someone who has lost a loved one",
Ms Parker has noted. While going through
a grief and loss cycle one does not
notice how they are being affected
by the experience and does not realize
the damage the grieving process is
having upon both business and personal
relationships.
While working in conjunction with
physicians and physical therapists
to assist the athlete in their recovery,
Ms. Parker also prepares and councils
the athlete to assist them in recovering
from the depression caused by the
loss of their abilities and support
group.
Therapists, such as Ms. Parker,
can help the athlete through the process,
help them accept a diminished level
of skills and if they have to give
up the sport altogether assist in
the transition into a new life style
with other interests and support groups.
The message is that although your
body will heal to an extent, your
mental wellbeing needs attention also.
Me I took up bicycling. |